know, the women were travelling for this aim too(1-5 %) . and stil my meaning is;woman go for sex to resorts ofthen, they wil not be on this Blog.i dont feel sorry for them. I found my kurd of “low social standing”, the manager of a platinum hotel at a coastal resort, speaks 4 languages, never applied for a settlement visa,whose family have several businesses, we got married after 2 years, been married 6 and we don’t have children together and never will. It would be a different story if he was a jack the lad, but he couldn’t be further from that. the time, pliz answer eimal me [email protected]. The battle of the sexes will never be won. I said her that he is too tired and want to sleep, and he can’t live a love affair with any girl in the hotel, because that would result him to get fired. As a turkish man let me give you a piece of advice. You don’t say if you want children. before getting into any relationship whichever part of the globe you belong Currently I have been learning french from busuu.com which is a Learning Community for europeon languages. We laughed, were somewhat flattered and generally just had fun and took nothing seriously. It is all mind games being played on your. He lives in a rural area near Kovancilar. That relationship was so obviously sex driven and alcohol based. There are so many stories on here about good and bad, it make me very wary what to do, as mine Turkish man as asked me to marry and we say we are engaged! He is my dream man and I love him to death so there are not just bad stories to tell, just want to say. You will realize that if you through the history. DON’T fall for the scam. I look younger for my age & am a good looking woman (sorry I’m not vain) albeit that’s not important. My wife is my life partner. for example, if you do not have a lot of money, catching flights back to see your kids and grandchild will need to become less frequent. Her story is one of several in a new documentary Davidson is directing called “Handbag: The Untold Story of the Fag Hag.” She has just raised $41,000 for the film set to be released in 2018. I have had lots of English men wanting to cheat on their wives and girlfriends with me, I’ve had some men talking the talk and only wanting one thing. West starts from Greece until L.A and east from Turkey. Woman often arent part of decision making, where in english culture, our world is full of career women, but traditionally if a woman doesnt marry & give birth she is a failure. English people do make comments based on what they hear and not fact. Hundred girls coming here for holiday,99 girls coming here for have fun for sun for sexs for every crazy things but only one girl come here for a love.i thought i found that one and did get married..her family really lovley and they love me more than their son i swear.i first love my wifes family not her much just liked her and loved her more later.soo i have never ever wanted my wife for visa or for money or only for sex.i have always told her if she think i want her for visa just leave me or come to turkey live here with me i wouldnt care where am as long as with u..i have try not let her to pay everythings.even for visa things i would never asked her for money and i already costed abt 15 thousand but i wouldnt ask her for this and my dad sold his place for this visa for us to be together and happy. I am reading your story and getting a sick feeling in my stomach. . reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): A Second, I don’t know whether this Turk cares for your wife however she needs to be very careful. He also bought my friend one as he said a friend of mine was a friend of his. I think your advice is solid. He really is a sweet man and he has been working 12 hours a day, 7 days a week to get money for us. Oh and apart from my sister none of my family approve. There are many kurds, laz, arap, cecen etc. I’m very uncertain about what the future holds, but I really don’t want to become old, wondering what might have been. That is great news. Either try to fix it or go for a divorce. I think he’s looking for a mother figure. Enjoy your vacation and I hope all goes well for you. He says he's no longer in love with his wife, but he can't divorce her. Murat would never pass a test. beacuse we know who we are… For example, for your man, i would easily say…, russian man-alcoholic and cruel Too many woman I have seen get taken this way. MR. Müjdat. . She didn’t know the other guys before, just met them here. I know it sounds ridiculous, a woman in her fifties with a man in his twenties. Hey anya! u all say ur people are perfect. But we can’t help who we fall for! I do believe in lust at first sight though and think that a lot of people confuse their feelings of lust with love including this boy. Don’t insult an entire nation because you’re so naive that you fall for the towel boy at your hotel. Hi Muzo, yes you are right. Turkish people is not arabic Different things Its selfish people all over the world in every nations also cheats If you met with wrong person nice going with blaming all turkish people…. Just take your time and see how it progresses. We had already had this debate. You will have more chance to find a better person then a barman . I dont sit in his bar every night mooning after him, I couldnt actually think of anything worse than doing that to be honest. Maybe he’s tired of the distance and has interest in someone there. He was very respectable and didn’t even try to make any moves. All nice and neat!My head was reeling! Better off out of it. coz no one cares abt them in england.so when somebody say to them here ooo i like u or love u they just flying on the moon even they know its not guna work coz every people likes to young or their age.so when shes get a young man here she wants to take him to the england to show all people she has young and handsome man.and she afford everythings for him.but she defo know it will finish one day. You’re not a 14 years old teen girl in a pink dress dreaming of a prince charming, most of you are experienced women, so you have to keep yourself away from these vacation adventures then later blaming all the nationality. And if any of you Turkish guys realise a foreign woman is being fooled by a player, why don’t you warn her, or tell her what he is saying in Turkish about her behind her back?We don’t speak Turkish so we are at a big disadvantage when it comes to separating the frogs from the princes so far from home. He asked me to go to Istanbul in the winter. If they work summer season, they come from Batman, Diyarbak?r, Elaz?? I probably will pine for him a bit more. That way the communication channels are open and you will know if anything does happen. He does hide his friends list, though, so I have no idea how many girls he might be friends with. This is to be expected as you do not live in the same country. Not being sophisticated his makes his excuses for backing off. Here the point is , Maybe not all but most of the guys u are hanging out with they are hotel bar club staff and they are seasonal workers there without education without well financial situation etc. dear olga, i do not fancy you or other russian girls. But it was really unreasonable to think that he really loved me and wanted to marry me, have a baby with me, etc… after only a week of knowing me.. um, no. He thought I didn’t understand him so he said it again. Thank you for your time. but be sure that you will be droped off somewhere down the road. even someone take ur wife front u u dnt say anythings its shit.i have seen many english man like that.about religion.i asked her for to be muslim and told her she doesnt have to if she doesnt want and she did accept.about alcohol..i would hate when shes drink coz she doesnt know what shes doin when she piss.so i did still respect her and said to her..just drink as much as u want when u be next to me..soo i have refused of settlement visa for some stupid reasons but it was definetly coz we have boy too.but she didnt tried much. Oh my gosh, he is Turkish. It is whether we choose to believe our own feelings or ignore which can determine the outcome of a relationship. You are either racist or blind. He jokingly said she can call him daddy !! and in koran you cannt eat haram para,RIGHT??????selam. Thanks for awareness to west women. our english doesnt good but we alway try to talk the new turk, and I chatted for hours, we didn’t care to see each other, but the conversation was awesome, as soon as we ended our chat, the crazy one video call me. Sounds like both of you need to talk face to face and decide if this relationship is meant to be. My Turkish friend seems very sincere, in his feelings for me, we have spoke at great length about our feeling for each other. 1. if your country, city, street, house, work does not make him glad and feel different from his country, you will be definetely betrayed. Unfortunately, all Turkish men think the same … I’m sorry, but this is not true … This is not a real Turkish man. hi i went to marmaris in 2006,i went with my sister and her little girl. I don’t think all these things can be said about your country. She says there was always a contradiction that lay at the heart of her relationship. I just don’t know… And I’ve met this lovely guy, but since he’s from Alanya (originally from Besiktas [can’t do the original S’s..] ) I just don’t know what to think.. And I know I’m only 18 years old, but really, you wouldn’t believe how much I’ve gone through.. Maybe that’s why I would like to believe this guy “is the one” who’s going to “save me”.. Really this is so awful. There are bad men in every country, con artists, rapists, women-beaters. He is very public about his feelings for me and I don’t think that he is keeping me a secret from another girl/wife. Thank you for taking the time to add this comment. Yes my children are my world and I adore them. And its a bit dangerous. Having lived here for 6 years I see what goes on, and if he is younger than you, and you have met his family, he is after money or a visa. i meet a turkish man this time last year and im english… and we are now happy and married.. i know im only 17 but not all turkish men are the way people make out.. you just need to give and take. There’s so many opportunities for them to get entangled with tourists! he almost begged me to send him one. We’ve never even spoken to each other on the telephone, never heard each other’s voices. A lot can happen in six months. Most of what he posts has to do with music, never anything raunchy and the people who comment on his posts are always the same people who never have anything seemingly raunchy to say, but then again, I can’t really tell! However, I do not think it would be wise to have this man come here. I KNOW THE JOY OF LOVING A TURKISH MAN, AND THE PAIN OF LOOSING ONE. Is that matter it is in turkey or miami or somewhere else in the world!! I met a lovely young man 30 years younger than me. Anyway, I hope you continue to add more as I would like to read them further, Natalie, Thank you for your nice feedback.